6. Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it. (Ferris Bueller's Day Off)
6.人生太匆匆。你若不偶爾停下來看看周圍,就會錯過很多風(fēng)景!電影《春天不是讀書天》(Ferris Bueller's Day)
When I was driving my oldest son to school this morning, he made a remark about how I "always" make a big deal out of his mistakes and bad choices at school and, he feels, not enough of a big deal about the things he does well every day. He might have a point: I have high expectations, and it freaks me out a little when he strays off-path, especially now that he is getting older and the stakes are a little higher. But I do want him to break the rules sometimes. I want him to skip school every once in a blue moon, go on adventures with his friends, dance and sing Beatles songs in a parade. I admit that I can be a little uptight about school, but I want my kids to step outside the box of our days sometimes and, honestly, I need to do that more often too. Anyone know where I can find a 1961 Ferrari 250 GT California Spyder?
今天早晨,我開車送大兒子去學(xué)校,他開口問我為何“總是”夸大他在學(xué)校里犯的錯和做的錯誤的決定,而不關(guān)注他每天取得的成績。他說對了一點(diǎn):我對他的期望過高,所以他一有變壞的傾向,我就神經(jīng)緊張,特別是隨著他日漸長大,犯錯付出的代價也將更大。但是有時候我也希望他能打破常規(guī),活得自由自在。我希望他能難得翹一次課,和朋友去探一次險,唱著披頭士(Beatles)的歌參加一次游行。我承認(rèn),我很在意他在學(xué)校的表現(xiàn),但是我也希望我的孩子們偶爾能跳出常規(guī)的生活,老實(shí)說,我自己也需要擺脫束縛,釋放壓力。有誰知道哪能弄到輛法拉利250 GT 1961敞篷款?