5.如果對方模仿你的肢體語言，那么你們的談話可能進(jìn)展得很順利

When two people are getting along, their postures and movements mirror each other's. When your best friend crosses her legs, you will, too. If you're on a date that's going well, you'll both be making the same hand gestures.
當(dāng)兩人相處得愉快時，他們會模仿對方的姿勢和動作。當(dāng)你最好的朋友雙腿交叉時，你也會這樣做。如果你的約會進(jìn)展順利，你們就會做出同樣的手勢。

This is because we mirror each other when we're feeling a connection, says positive psychologist Barbara Fredrickson.
積極心理學(xué)家芭芭拉?弗雷德里克森說，這是因?yàn)楫?dāng)我們心靈相通時，我們就會模仿對方。