情人節(jié)剛過，你是否把玫瑰花送到她的手里，抱得美人歸？還是“我本將心向明月，奈何明月照溝渠”？別氣餒，下面奉上寶典，為廣大男同胞們造福。別一味多愁善感，開始鼓起勇氣、腳踏實地行動吧！
Every girl is different--if they were all alike, you wouldn't be interested in this one in particular, now would you? There are as many different ways to get a girl as there are girls, so let's go over some basic rules that'll win over any girl worth getting.
每個女孩都不一樣，要是她們都一樣的話，你肯定沒理由就只對這個感興趣，你說是吧？世上有多少女孩，咱就有多少讓她們喜歡咱的招兒。我們先來縷一縷一些基本思路，然后你就能戰(zhàn)無不勝。
Steps 步驟
1. Have your own life. 好好過自己的日子。
If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this is especially important. Girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Actually, some girls do like that, but usually for all the wrong reasons--either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who like to dominate guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, and goals.
這一步對“想和她先做朋友”的同胞們尤其重要。姑娘們不喜歡沒有自己生活的男生，更不喜歡像塑料包裝一樣黏糊著她們的家伙。雖說現(xiàn)實中有些女孩兒喜歡被男生黏著，但她們喜歡被黏的理由都不太正常：要么就是她沒安全感，需要別人的注意；要么就是控制狂，總想操縱咱老爺們。除非你想學(xué)周瑜打黃蓋，她愿打你愿挨，否則你最好投入更多精力去搞好自己的友誼、興趣和人生理想。
2. Make an impression. 留給她印象。
There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill or talent that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too.
沒有放之四海皆準(zhǔn)的做法。也許你做的事情能讓這個女孩回味，卻讓另一個反胃。最好的方法就是做你自己。給她瞧瞧你的絕活，或者你引以為豪的卓爾不群的才華。這可不只會叫她對你印象良好，你也會因此信心倍增。
3. Flirt. 巧妙地調(diào)情。
When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact. Smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or you've got something stuck to your teeth. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment.
遇著你喜歡的女孩時，蜻蜓點水一般和她來個眼神接觸。微笑。制造一個輕松的對話。最重要一點：別緊張。別把她當(dāng)成你的夢中女神；別去想笑話講冷了會怎樣；哪怕牙縫里塞了東西也不要緊。重要的是享受和她，和這個與你生命產(chǎn)生交集而又魅力非凡的她，你來我往兩相交流的過程?；钤诋?dāng)下才是王道。
4. Talk to her. 對話。
Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what you want to leap out of bed to pursue. Ask her what she really loves in life and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Most importantly, listen.
告訴她你生命的熱情所在，告訴她是什么事情能讓你從床上一躍而起去追求。也問問她對什么感到興奮。展示給她你積極的人生態(tài)度。即便你倒了一天霉，也要微笑豁達著面對。記住，認(rèn)真地傾聽她說的話。
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