Quora網(wǎng)友提問：“你會和比你教育程度低的人戀愛嗎？”一起來看看國外網(wǎng)友們的高贊回答。

獲得38.3k好評的回答@Sean Kernan：

I would but it has tended not to work out well for various reasons.
我會的，但由于種種原因，結(jié)果往往不太好。

Also, education is a huge deal in my family. Everyone has advanced degrees and the women in my family are really judgmental about whom I date.
而且教育在我家里是件大事，家人都受過高等教育，家里的女性成員對我約會的對象都很挑剔。

But more to my preferences. I’m just really attracted to a woman who is smart, well-read and educated. I find intelligence incredibly attractive. Some might say that means I’m a sapiosexual. But I refuse to use that term.
但更多的是因?yàn)槲业南埠茫艺娴南矚g聰明、博學(xué)、受過良好教育的女孩。我感覺智慧真的超有吸引力，有些人會說這意味著我是個智性戀，但我不喜歡用這個詞。

獲得25.8k 好評的回答@Weiru Cai：

Yes and I have. I didn't just date one, I married one.
是的，我已經(jīng)愛上一個了。我不僅和這樣的人戀愛了，而且結(jié)婚了。

I have under graduate degrees in physics and computer science, and a graduate degree in computer science. My husband has an under graduate degree in philosophy.
我有物理學(xué)和計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)學(xué)士學(xué)位、計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)研究生學(xué)位，我丈夫有心理學(xué)學(xué)士學(xué)位。

But that is just on paper. My husband chose a life long path of self education early on since his childhood.
但那只是一紙學(xué)歷，我丈夫早在童年時起就選擇了自學(xué)的人生之路。

He wrote cloud enabled apps without taking a single programming class in his life.
他從未上過一節(jié)編程課就會寫云計(jì)算應(yīng)用程序。

He is a software UX architect without taking a single design class in his life.
他從未上過一節(jié)設(shè)計(jì)課就成為了一名軟件用戶體驗(yàn)架構(gòu)師。

獲得4.3k好評的回答@Wendy Taylor：

It depends on what you mean by “l(fā)ess educated.”
這要取決于你如何定義“教育程度更低”。

I have an MA. My husband has an associates degree. By that standard, he’s less educated.
我有文學(xué)碩士學(xué)位，我丈夫是大專學(xué)歷，按教育程度來看他學(xué)歷更低。

However, we’ve been married 17 years and the education difference has never been any kind of issue.
然而我們結(jié)婚17年了，教育上的差異根本不是問題。

In fact, it’s pretty clear that his degree has been more practically useful.
其實(shí)很明顯他的學(xué)歷更有實(shí)際用處。

Would I date someone with less intellectual curiosity than me?
我會和求知欲不如我的人戀愛嗎？

Probably not, because I think once that was established, we’d find out we had little in common to sustain a relationship beyond a friendship.
可能不會，因?yàn)槲艺J(rèn)為一旦建立了這種關(guān)系，我們就會發(fā)現(xiàn)除了友誼之外，我們幾乎沒有共同點(diǎn)來維持關(guān)系。

It’s not that I’d think less of them.
這不是我鄙視他們。

These are just the kind of judgments we make when sorting out what kind of relationships we want with people.
這只是我們在確定和別人保持什么關(guān)系時會做出的判斷。

來源：滬江英語