不想玩手機(jī)玩到?jīng)]朋友?“手機(jī)禮節(jié)”要遵守 Phone etiquette: How not to lose friends
中國日?qǐng)?bào)網(wǎng) 2018-08-10 08:53
很多人每天早上醒來最先看的是手機(jī),睡覺前最后看的也是手機(jī)。我們的手機(jī)從未遠(yuǎn)離身側(cè),有數(shù)據(jù)顯示,我們平均每隔12分鐘就要看一次手機(jī)。既然我們和手機(jī)注定是難舍難分,那么就應(yīng)該遵守相應(yīng)的“手機(jī)禮節(jié)”。下面這五件事,最好要避免。
1. Talk on the phone at mealtimes
吃飯時(shí)打手機(jī)
An absolute no-no for most (81%) of us - yet half of us have been with others who've done it. And more than a quarter (26%) of young adults admit to it.
吃飯時(shí)打手機(jī)對(duì)大多數(shù)人(81%)而言是絕對(duì)不可接受的,但還是有半數(shù)人曾遇到過這樣做的人。超過四分之一(26%)的年輕人承認(rèn)自己曾在吃飯時(shí)打過手機(jī)。
"They should always be off and out of sight during meals, meetings and parties," insists Diana Mather, of The English Manner consultancy. "The person you're with is the person who's the most important. None of us is indispensable."
英國禮節(jié)咨詢機(jī)構(gòu)的戴安娜·馬瑟堅(jiān)稱:“吃飯、開會(huì)和參加派對(duì)時(shí)手機(jī)應(yīng)該關(guān)機(jī)并收起來。眼下和你在一起的人就是最重要的人。又不是缺了你不行,何必一定要在這時(shí)候打手機(jī)?!?/p>
But even looking at the screen at the dinner table is not on - for some. More than four in five people aged 55 and over think it's unacceptable to check notifications, compared with around half (46%) of 18 to 34-year-olds.
即使在吃飯時(shí)看一眼手機(jī)屏幕,也會(huì)讓某些人不爽。55歲以上人群中有超過五分之四的人認(rèn)為吃飯時(shí)看手機(jī)消息是不可接受的,而年齡在18到34歲之間的人中大約有一半(46%)對(duì)此行為表示不可接受。
2. Listen to loud music on public transport
在公共交通工具上大聲聽音樂
Three-quarters (76%) of us object to watching videos and playing video games loudly on public transport, as well as listening to music, but it doesn't stop us doing it.
四分之三(76%)的人反對(duì)在公共交通工具上大聲看視頻、打游戲和聽音樂,但這并沒有阻止某些人這么做。
3. Be on the phone when you should be listening
本應(yīng)聽別人講話時(shí)卻在打電話
You're at the till but on the phone mid-conversation. Do you hang up, say a polite "hello" and graciously pack away your bread and clementines - or chat on regardless?
輪到你結(jié)賬了,你卻在打電話。你是掛了電話,禮貌地說聲“你好”,然后優(yōu)雅地把面包和柑橘等雜貨收起來,還是不管不顧地繼續(xù)講電話?
It's a source of frustration for many a shop worker, receptionist and waiter. One Sainsbury's checkout worker was so incensed when a customer refused to end her call that she refused to serve her.
這種行為讓許多商店員工、前臺(tái)接待員和服務(wù)員都很抓狂。在塞恩斯伯里超市,因?yàn)橐幻櫩筒豢蠏祀娫?,收銀員氣急了,拒絕為她服務(wù)。
4. Walk while looking at your phone
一邊看手機(jī)一邊走路
They've got their head down, eyes peeled to the screen - and they're right in your path. Internally you're screaming Look up! Look up! But no - it's the pavement slalom again - dodging in and out of pedestrians in the phone zone.
這些低頭走路的人眼睛只盯著手機(jī)屏幕,還擋你的道。你在心里大叫“抬頭看!抬頭看!”哦不,“路障族”又來了——在看手機(jī)的視線范圍內(nèi)躲避著行人。
And Twitter user @tiredhorizon has a public warning for them. Put away your phones in public buildings, hospitals and near reversing lorries.
推特用戶@tiredhorizon給這些人發(fā)了一個(gè)公開警告:在公共建筑、醫(yī)院和靠近倒車的卡車時(shí),把手機(jī)收起來。
5. Fiddle with devices while watching TV with others
和別人一起看電視時(shí)玩手機(jī)
Four in 10 (41%) adults think it's unacceptable to use a phone while curled up with the family on the sofa in front of TV.
41%的成年人認(rèn)為和家人一起在沙發(fā)上看電視時(shí)不應(yīng)該玩手機(jī)。
For the older generation (those over 55) it's more of an issue - 62% object to it - than for younger adults - only one in five have a problem with it.
對(duì)于老一輩人(55歲以上的人)來說,這個(gè)行為更不能接受——62%的人持反對(duì)態(tài)度,不過年輕人比較無所謂,只有五分之一的人不能接受。
英文來源:BBC
翻譯&編輯:丹妮