發(fā)表意見:贊同與反對(duì)(通訊員稿) [ 2006-11-23 10:42 ]
在會(huì)議上要表示自己的意見時(shí),有一些可以稱之為“套路”的表達(dá)方式。下面我們就來看看這些句型,希望對(duì)不知如何表達(dá)自己意見的同志有用。
● 提出歸納 1. We must face the following issues. One is... Two is... 2.
I've come to the conclusion that the first issue is...; the second is... 3.
I've reached the conclusion that the first issue is...; the second is... 4.
There are (two) main issues here; the first issue is...; the second
is... 這種句型的功用在于提出關(guān)鍵性的歸納,并隨后逐項(xiàng)加以解釋。這句話由于以 we 為主語,沒使用 I think、from my point of
view 等牽涉?zhèn)€人的用語開頭,大幅降低主觀意識(shí),會(huì)讓在座者較易接受說話者的意見。
● 贊同看法 1. A valid
point. 2. I agree completely. 3. I agree one hundred percent. 4. I
agree wholeheartedly. Valid
是“確實(shí)的;有價(jià)值的”;point為“重點(diǎn);觀點(diǎn)”。這用語是說對(duì)方提出的這一點(diǎn)很有參考價(jià)值,值得重視。等于It's a valid point. 將 It's
省略后,語氣更形簡(jiǎn)潔有力。這句話表示自己完全同意對(duì)方的看法,并百分之百地支持;常能發(fā)揮鼓勵(lì)他人發(fā)言的作用,可用于正式或非正式的場(chǎng)合。
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表達(dá)反對(duì) 1. I'm sorry, but I have to disagree. 2. I'm sorry, but I can't
agree with that. 3. I'm sorry, but I can't support that position /
idea. 4. I'm sorry, but I can't go along with
that. disagree的意思是“不同意;反對(duì)”。這句話可用于半正式與正式場(chǎng)合中。請(qǐng)注意這句話:不同意的是“意見”而非“個(gè)人”,純粹對(duì)事不對(duì)人,所以可以很技巧地避免讓對(duì)方下不了臺(tái)。用
I'm sorry 開頭,尤顯客氣有禮。
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同意與反對(duì) 在會(huì)議桌上,面對(duì)不同考慮的方案與意見時(shí),我們常需表達(dá)正面或反面的看法。以下提出兩種不同程度表達(dá)同意及反對(duì)的說法,請(qǐng)比較參考:
同意的說法:強(qiáng)烈表達(dá) I'm in complete agreement. I quite agree. I couldn't
agree more. Exactly! Precisely. 同意的說法:和緩表達(dá) I agree. You're right
there. I think you're right. That's true. That's
right. 反對(duì)的說法:強(qiáng)烈表達(dá) I disagree completely. That's out of the
question. On the contrary. Of course not! That's
ridiculous. 反對(duì)的說法:和緩表達(dá) I don't agree. That's not how I see it. I
wouldn't say that. I don't think it will work. I disagree.
重點(diǎn)提示
A.
參加會(huì)議時(shí)一定要帶筆記本 請(qǐng)您永遠(yuǎn)記得帶著筆記本去開會(huì)。做筆記除了記錄重點(diǎn),輔助記憶外,還可使自己看起來具有敬業(yè)的精神;表示自己不是隨隨便便地當(dāng)個(gè)聽眾而已。此外,記筆記,也會(huì)讓發(fā)言者覺得備受重視,對(duì)您留下好印象。相反地,不做記錄,難免會(huì)給人漫不經(jīng)心,不太積極的感覺。
B.
目光直視不閃躲,能給人自信的印象 無論自己是否為發(fā)言人,目光皆應(yīng)直視與會(huì)者;這不但能表露出自信,也是尊重他人的表現(xiàn)。但切莫"干瞪眼",否則將淪為傲慢無禮之態(tài)。另外,不妨在自家鏡前練習(xí),您將會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)“目光不閃躲”是與人爭(zhēng)論時(shí)的妙招;因?yàn)楫?dāng)你一直無懼直視時(shí),對(duì)方多半會(huì)將目光移開,而有意無意地,他人總會(huì)認(rèn)為真理是站在目光筆直的那一方;這份自信無疑地會(huì)讓您占上風(fēng)。
C.
會(huì)議中傳達(dá)訊息的身體語言 身體語言往往能有意無意地透露出許多訊息,可以用來表示同意或反對(duì)。幾個(gè)表示“同意”的身體語言有:身體微向前傾、面向演說者、不以雙手抱胸、不翹腳;表示“反對(duì)”的則有身子向后靠、臉不朝向演說者、雙手交叉抱胸、翹腳(將一只腳平放在另一只腿上,即腳踝放在另一只腳的膝蓋上,讓對(duì)方看到鞋底)。
(來源:《國際商務(wù)英語教程》上海理工大學(xué)通訊員何旖文供稿 英語點(diǎn)津 Annabel 編輯) |